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Thought Thursdays: The Strengthening Actors for Effective Preventative Response Project

The Strengthening Actors for Effective Preventative Response Project (SAFE-PR), developed by MOSAIC Training Service and Healing Centre (hereinafter referred to as MOSAIC) aims to advance the rights and safety of women, children and other vulnerable groups in relationships, homes and community, by convening localised multi-stakeholder SAFE Platforms made up of duty bearers and first responders to domestic and intimate partner violence in various communities. The SAFE Platforms are place-based, focussing on convening stakeholders in a particular area to connect existing assets and resources to increase capacity in removing barriers to survivors accessing care, safety, security and justice guaranteed in law, particularly the Domestic Violence Act. This is linked further to the goal of ensuring that protection orders protect and harm is prevented! Duty bearers and first responders to domestic violence are the police, social workers, magistrates, clerks, healthcare workers, teachers, neighbourhood watch, religious and traditional leaders, civil society members. Therefore, multi-stakeholders are personnel from the local institutions of the South African Police Services, Department of Justice, Department of Health, Department of Social Development, as well as community-based civil society organisations who come together to identify gaps, challenges in advancing the care, safety, security and justice to survivors and co-create solutions to improve the lives of survivors in the communities they live. Through the SAFE Platform, we believe that by fostering collaboration and cooperation among these entities, we will enhance the effectiveness of preventative measures and responses to domestic violence using the expertise of diverse stakeholders coming together around a shared objective. MOSAIC provides the backbone support for the SAFE Platforms to foster continuous communication amongst stakeholders, connect agreed upon activities and coordinate the referral pathway of the multi-sectoral collaboration, to address the systemic barriers and challenges that affect DV survivors when seeking services. The aim is to remove barriers to access at a local level and connect stakeholders to work towards meaningful solutions to the pervasive issue of domestic violence so that we can achieve the goal of advancing safety in relationships, homes and communities.   Where does SAFE operate? SAFE currently operates in three locations, Philippi, Mitchell’s Plain and Paarl. A SAFE Platform is selected based on several factors: Existing Presence: MOSAIC has a presence within the communities. This existing presence facilitates legitimacy within the community as we are part of the service delivery chain and of the community. This also makes it easier to leverage collaborative success through existing networks.  High Incidences of DV: Philippi, Mitchell’s Plain, and Paarl experience high incidences of domestic and intimate partner violence, as indicated by official SAPS crime statistics and MOSAIC court service data. This underscores the urgent need for intervention and support in these areas. Infrastructure: Each of these locations has multiple police stations, courts, and other support services already available. This ensures the provision of resources for accessing justice and support services for community members affected by DV. By operating in these specific areas, SAFE can directly target communities with significant need for intervention and support and further enhance the effectiveness as well as reach of the platform’s initiatives.   How does SAFE work?   The SAFE Platforms uses an asset-place based approach focused on localised community-coordinated responses to achieve its objectives in advancing the implementation of DV laws and removing barriers to survivors accessing care, safety, security and justice services in their local communities. Here’s how it works: Platforms/Hubs: SAFE established platforms/hubs at a local community level, strategically connecting stakeholders from various sectors. These hubs serve as spaces for collaboration, information sharing and joint efforts in preventing and responding to domestic violence. Convening, Meetings and Training: Stakeholders are strengthened through regular convenings, meetings and training sessions. The activities focus on enhancing coordination, information sharing, building supportive relationships and improving the quality of services. Referrals and Resource Sharing: SAFE establishes robust referral systems across stakeholder to ensure survivors of DV have access to a wide range of support and services they need. This includes facilitating referrals to appropriate service providers, reducing service duplication and maximising resource efficiency to better meet the needs of survivors. Coordination & Integration: MOSAIC provides strong and skilled coordination to ensure that different parts of the system are working together in the most efficient and effective manner. This involves convening stakeholders, facilitating collaboration, building and maintaining relationships necessary for effective collaboration. Shared Measurement: SAFE implements a shared measurement system with common objectives, indicators and reporting systems. Data collected through this system feeds into a shared public dashboard, enabling all stakeholders to easily track progress. This shared measurement approach fosters accountability, transparency and collection action among stakeholders. How can others get involved and why does it matter?  The third quarter crime statistics released by the SAPS last month, indicate that over 19 000 women were victims of domestic-related physical and sexual violence in South Africa. These crimes reported to SAPS during the period 01 October – 31 December 2023 represent only a small proportion of domestic violence incidents, with many cases going unreported or without a criminal case being opened. In the same period, 152 women were murdered, and 238 attempted murder cases against women in domestic violence related cases were opened. This is the grim reality of our society which should urge all of us to want to get involved in shaping our relationships, homes and communities to be safer. Domestic violence and gender-based violence is a violation of human rights and has serious physical, emotional and psychological consequences for survivors and their families. Additionally, its continued prevalence undermines trust and cohesion within families and communities and cannot be tolerated. By addressing the root causes, holding perpetrators accountable as well as implementing preventative measures we create safety in relationships, homes and communities.  SAFE is a platform that can exist in your community too. There are several ways we can all work together to address domestic violence and support initiatives such as SAFE.  Working together we can rebuild and ensure that violence has no place in our relationships, homes and communities. If you are looking at

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Thought Thursdays: Looking Beyond the Rands and Cents: The REAL cost of austerity measures in post- gender-based violence (GBV) care

The National budget speech, tabled by Finance Minister, Enoch Godongwana, on Wednesday, 21 February presented declined economic growth forecasts and a rising debt to GDP ratio. The state re-emphasised its commitment to its fiscal goals, including austerity measures to the tune of R80.6-billion in reduced spending. These measures will undoubtedly continue to affect post-GBV services to abused people, especially women and children offered by organisations like MOSAIC. MOSAIC offers a holistic basket of services to empower individuals, families and communities to enjoy safe relationships, homes and communities free from gender-based violence. The commitment to post-GBV care at the time of the incident is realised in MOSAIC’s provision of 24-hour first responder and counselling support as part of the Thuthuzela Care Centre (TCC) model. Offering a lifeline to survivors of sexual and domestic violence and their families. The impact of the current austerity measures have already disrupted this continuum of care, in the form of consolidation of services, non-filling of vacancies, among others, leaving gender-based violence response services devoid of the dedicated, specialist personnel as envisioned in the NSP on GBVF. What are austerity measure policies and why do they matter? The Institute for Economic Justice explains austerity measures as a way to “balance the budget”, through restrictive austerity policies implemented through aggressive spending cuts, regressive tax increases, or a combination of both. As we face the reality of a GDP in consistent decline and high unemployment rates, it’s crucial to recognise the interconnectedness of economic stability and social well-being. Violence, particularly gender-based violence, stands as a significant barrier to unlocking our nation’s full potential. Budget cuts affecting essential services like TCC have far-reaching repercussions, impacting not only women’s health, access to justice and safety, but also hindering economic productivity. So what’s the REAL Impact Let’s visit Khayelitsha District Hospital (KDH), with a subdistrict population far exceeding its official bed capacity, serving as a stark example of the challenges faced in providing essential care amidst limited resources. A woman, let’s call her Tinstwalo, walks into KDH having just experienced rape. She is aware that KDH has a dedicated TCC that has specialised services for rape survivors. She goes there after escaping from the hands of her rapist expecting the comprehensive service promised by the integrated TCC model. However, due to the current austerity measures, she waits almost 24-hours to receive the specialised services because  there is no dedicated forensic doctor. Tintswalo, is only received by a MOSAIC first responder, who has no capacity to examine and administer life-saving medication such as Pre-exposure prophylaxis (PEP) to prevent contracting HIV, emergency pregnancy prevention medication, wound treatment. Her physical and emotional wounds are left untreated for hours. During this time, Tintswalo, without access to a doctor present at the time of presenting at the TCC is at risk of secondary victimisation and might miss the first 72 hours, which are a critical window for medical care, support and forensic evidence collection, post rape. The ripple effect of access to post-violence care also hinders Tintswalo’s ability to open a criminal case, supported by collected evidence by a doctor, should she choose to pursue justice. “Failure to access immediate post-violence care defines a survivor’s life forever going forward, through possible contraction of HIV/STIs and unwanted pregnancies as well as unseen scars. This is the real cost of brutal budget cuts which are felt across the sector, inflicting secondary victimisation of thousands of women who labour daily for South Africa’s economy.” – Adv. Tarisai Mchuchu-MacMillan, MOSAIC Executive Director. MOSAIC’s advocacy for 24-hour specialised post-violence care is informed by a deep understanding of the urgent need for comprehensive and timely support for survivors of GBV. MOSAIC understands that the consequences of failing to access post-violence treatment extend far beyond the immediate trauma, shaping the trajectory of a survivor’s life indefinitely. By engaging with stakeholders such as the Western Cape Gender Justice Forum and the National Prosecuting Authority (NPA), MOSAIC continues to advocate for efficient 24-hour service delivery within TCCs. The TCC model was designed as a real solution to the pandemic of GBV as such, it is essential that collectively the Department of Health, National Prosecuting Authority, Department of Social Development and South African Police Service work together to prevent the implications of budget cuts and ever growing austerity measures to not affect post-GBV care services. It’s imperative to look beyond the Rands and Cents, and recognise the real-life impact such measures have on individuals and society as-a-whole.

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Thought Thursdays: Love Doesn’t Hurt

February, with its many symbols of love, serves as a reminder of the importance of examining how we express love within our intimate spaces- relationships, homes and even our communities. Home should ideally be a sanctuary of love and safety. In MOSAIC’s 30 years of providing support services to survivors of domestic and intimate partner violence, this ideal of love and safety that intimate relationships and homes purport is not the reality  for many women and children, it is a site of violence and fear. What is love? To love and be loved is what we all need and must work to ensure that where love is professed, there is no harm in its name, because love doesn’t hurt! It should never manifest in acts of harm or aggression. Yet our society is littered with stories of many slain women at the hands of those who professed to love them most. The sobering daily reports by Women for Change, detail the murders of at least 15 women and children due to intimate partner violence since the start of 2024. These are just the reported cases, which likely represent only a fraction of the true extent of the problem, as many incidents of intimate partner violence go unreported. Bell Hooks’ identification of essential ingredients that make up love, including care, commitment, knowledge, responsibility, respect, and trust resonates deeply with MOSAIC’s understanding of love as a transformative and nurturing force. MOSAIC advocates for healthy and equitable relationships based on gender equality, respect, care, knowledge, responsibility and understanding. By embracing these essential ingredients of love, we strive to support people in all domestic partnerships to create a relationships and homes where love is not only celebrated as a feeling but practiced in its most transformative form. Love simply put, cannot be used in the same breath as violent acts, in all its varied ways, that cut short the lives of women and children. MOSAIC’s commitment to eradicating violence in relationships, homes, and communities is deeply rooted in the belief that, love and violence are fundamentally incompatible. Transforming relationships and homes to ensure that Love Doesn’t Hurt MOSAIC’s dedication to preventing all forms of abuse and violence against women and children is guided by five pillars that prioritise holistic support in transforming relationships and homes to become places where love doesn’t hurt. These pillars inform our holistic approach to providing quality services and programme interventions that connects people to transformative support in their journey of healing and rebuilding their lives, including behaviour change for those that weaponise love as a tool to hurt. Access to Justice is important for equipping survivors with the legal tools and resources they need to safeguard themselves from further harm. Busisiwe Mthethwa’s brutal murder by her partner in Philippi as we ended 2023,  serves as a stark reminder of not only the urgent need for justice and accountability in cases of gender-based violence, but a need for hyper awareness of how to detect when what is being provided in the relationship is not love. Mthethwa was a 56-year-old resident of Samora Machel, Philippi, Cape Town, who did not get to live to work towards her New Year’s resolutions. Through MOSAIC’s court support services and Thuthuzela Care Centre work, anyone can access support to gain protection from abuse and violence and ensure that love doesn’t hurt. Support & Healing: Experiencing abuse and violence in relationships from a person you love and who professes love to you can affect a person physically, emotionally, mentally, spiritually and even economically, in a way, it affects the way they see themselves, how they manage and enter relationships and even they outlook to the future. We offer short, medium or long-term therapeutic counselling tailored to suit the needs of the survivor to advance their healing. We understand the complexity of love and how interconnected it is to families, thus we offer couples counselling including behaviour change for men who use violence in relationships.  Where women with their children are in danger or need to escape a space, we provide residential care through our shelters, to ensure that love doesn’t hurt. Economic Empowerment: Economic independence is essential to survivor’s autonomy, and MOSAIC’s initiatives provide women with skills and finding opportunities for financial empowerment to break the cycle of abuse. Our Fellows-Survivor led #Pieces2Peace initiative is an innovative training and empowerment programme for survivors, assisting women in finding financial stability and actualise true choice. Economic empowerment is key for women to leave abusive and violent relationships, as such we place an emphasises on skills development and training for survivors so that they can access employment opportunities, create their own businesses and/or pursue further education and training. Gender Equality & Safety: Redressing the inequities perpetuated by patriarchal systems and harmful gender norms, we work towards dismantling the structural barriers that perpetuate violence and abuse. Hooks key ingredients remind us that when we intentionally love one another with care, commitment, knowledge, responsibility, respect, and trust we prevent violence from occurring in our relationships, homes and communities. We commitment to safeguarding our partners from harm and being responsible for our actions, armed with the knowledge of love only exists with respect, trust and care. Violence can be prevented through couples counselling being open to learning new ways of conflict resolution. Systems Change and Strengthening: Through advocacy and policy reform at every level of the system we must play a role in ensuring that our justice system is responsive to the pandemic of gender-based violence. MOSAIC’s SAFE-PR project consisting of multi-sector groups, working in each township community to bridge the divide between women, frontline practitioners and multi-sector stakeholders, in particular, community policing forums, police service and court officials. For the next 12 months, we have also partnered with Gun Free South Africa (GFSA) and the National Shelter Movement to launch a campaign, Remove The Trigger, to raise awareness of the use of guns in the context of domestic violence as well as to control and coerce victims. Each of MOSAIC’s five

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Media Statement Busisiwe Mthethwa

Media Statement 8 January 2023   For immediate release    Keeping women and children safe in their homes, relationships and communities needs to be accelerated and amplified!    Cape Town, 5 January 2024 — The horror and shock we feel now as a community with the ruthless murder of Busisiwe Mthethwa, whose dismembered body was found by her family in a chest freezer in her home, Samora Machel, Philippi, must move us to demand for justice, as well as act to prevent violence and abuse every day. “We are outraged that a woman can be killed in their home, by a person they love, amongst and within a community. We are certainly having more conversations around domestic violence (DV) and GBV, and acknowledge the increase in awareness, unfortunately, it does not mean this type of violence is decreasing,” says Tarisai Mchuchu-MacMillan, Executive Director of an anti-GBV non-governmental organisation (NGO) MOSAIC; a community-based organisation that works to prevent and reduce abuse and domestic violence by providing holistic, integrated services for the healing and empowerment of women through support services, access to justice and training. “The patriarchal masculinity that underpins the violence and abuse that women and children experience in their homes, relationships and communities needs to change. We need individuals, couples, family and community members to enrol in free workshops, training and dialogues that are designed to equip people with life skills that lead to non-violent, peaceful homes, relationships and communities,” says Mchuchu-MacMillan. MOSAIC, coordinates a multi-stakeholder platform called SAFE in Philippi and other communities where various local representatives work together to address GBV with a focus on domestic and intimate-partner violence. SAFE seeks to connect and strengthen duty bearers in government and non-governmental organisations to be able to offer prevention and response services. Through the SAFE Platform, coordinated training, workshops and dialogues with a focus on gender equality and skills development to help people challenge the harmful beliefs that normalise continued violence by men and boys against women and girls will be accelerated and amplified. “We must ensure that tragedies like that of Busisiwe Mthethwa will not happen again in our communities. We must work to prevent perpetrators like Brian Miripiri, who use power and control against their partners, who struggle to control their emotions and violent impulses where abuse ends up leading to murder,” says Mchuchu- MacMillan We are grateful that SAPS in Samora Machel as a SAFE Platform member, together with the Community Policing Forum acted and ensured immediate response to the family’s request when they needed to access the home in search of Busisiwe and further secured the arrest of the alleged perpetrator, Brian Miripiri. The alleged perpetrator will appear at the Athlone Magistrate, Court F on 9 January 2023. MOSAIC together with the SAFE Platform members call on all community members to attend to ensure that we support the state in opposing bail and helping Busisiwe get the justice she deserves.   Ends   Editors Notes For more information, inquiries, or requests for interviews, please contact:     Sinelizwi Ncaluka: Communications and Stakeholder Relations Coordinator E: sinelizwi@mosaic.org.za T: +27 066 269 0629 (Calls and Messaging)   About MOSAIC  MOSAIC Training, Service & Healing Centre (MOSAIC) is an African-feminist, community-based NGO that prevents and reduces abuse and domestic violence. We achieve this through holistic and integrated first responder services when incidents occur, supporting people through healing and rebuilding their lives following a traumatic event, and collectively advocating for system change to ensure universal access to care, support and justice since 1993. MOSAIC creates an enabling environment through our holistic and integrated five-pillar service model   Access to justice Support and Healing Economic Empowerment Gender Equality & Safety Systems change & Strengthening   The organisation was established in 1993 in response to high levels of violence against women in South Africa, particularly in the form of domestic violence, and in recognition of the silence that many women suffer in unnecessarily, due to either a lack of knowledge of their rights, a lack of confidence to access justice for themselves, or both.   MOSAIC’s registered head office is in Cape Town, South Africa.   For further information about MOSAIC, please visit www.mosaic.org.za

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International Day of the Girl Child

EmpowerHER: Activating Girls’ Agency to Choose Safe Relationships Every Adult Woman Survivor of Domestic Violence Was Once a Girl Child  Cape Town, 11 October 2023 — MOSAIC Training, Service & Healing Centre is a community-based, African-feminist organization based in South Africa that has been responding and working to prevent violence against women since 1993, with a particular focus on domestic and intimate-partner violence. On this International Day of the Girl Child, MOSAIC proudly joins the global community in celebrating the potential and resilience of girls everywhere, under the theme, EmpowerHER: Activating Girls’ Agency to Choose Safe Relationships. We recognize that empowering girls is not just a cause but a moral imperative, as every adult woman survivor of Domestic Violence was once a girl child filled with dreams and hopes. In 2023, in a post-COVID world, being a South African Girl Child can be a particularly challenging and dangerous journey. The obstacles they face are immense, but so is their spirit. To amplify their voices and connect on a deeper level, we believe in the transformative power of art in all its forms. Art transcends language and culture; it resonates with the soul. It’s a medium through which South African Girl Children can express themselves, share their stories, and inspire change. Through painting, music, dance, poetry, and storytelling, they can connect with their peers, communities, and the world at large, creating a profound impact on the way society views and supports them. The heart of our campaign remains rooted in four essential goals: Raising Awareness about Gender-Based Violence (GBV) Prevention: Through art, we can create powerful visual narratives that speak to the urgency of ending GBV. Art can convey the pain, resilience, and strength of South African Girl Children like no other medium. Promoting Positive and Safe Relationships, Homes, and Communities: Art installations, murals, and performances can transform public spaces, serving as reminders of the importance of safe and nurturing environments for girls. Building a Positive and Strong Sense of Self with Skills for Communication and Capacity to Assert Oneself: Art workshops can provide girls with a creative outlet to express themselves and build self-confidence. Empowering Young Girls with Rights and Ways to Activate Those Rights to Stand Up Against Violence and Discrimination: Through art exhibitions and events, we can educate girls and their communities about their rights, creating a space for dialogue and change. The theme for this year’s International Day of the Girl Child reminds us that every girl child has the potential to become a beacon of strength, resilience, and change. Together, we can nurture that potential and create a world where girls are safe, empowered, and free to pursue their dreams. As we celebrate the girls of today, we also honor the women who have overcome adversity. By empowering girls to choose safe relationships and stand against violence and discrimination, we are not only shaping their futures but also building a more just and equitable world for all. Join MOSAIC in our mission to EmpowerHER through the transformative power of art. Let us amplify the voices of girls and empower them to lead the way towards a brighter and safer future in this post-COVID, often challenging world. #EmpowerHER #InternationalDayOfTheGirlChild #MOSAICforGirls #ArtForChange #EveryAdultWomanSurvivorOfDomesticViolenceWasOnceAGirlChild Victims of domestic violence can call MOSAIC on 021 761 7585 if based in Cape Town or the national GBV Command Centre on 0800 428 428.   About MOSAIC MOSAIC is a community-based non-governmental organisation (NGO) that works to prevent and reduce abuse and domestic violence. This is achieved by providing holistic, integrated services when incidents      occur, and supporting clients through the process of healing and rebuilding their lives after a traumatic event. MOSAIC creates an enabling environment through our holistic and integrated five-pillar service model Access to justice – psychosocial and legal support provided by court support workers, and psychosocial support from MOSAIC’s Sexual Violence Counsellors at Thuthuzela Care Centres Support and Healing – Counselling Services, Support Groups and Sexual and Reproductive Health Rights; Engaging Men and Boys- Training and Workshops, Support Groups and Counselling for Men Empower- Education and Skills Training, Rights Training, Youth GBV Life Skills and Community Dialogues Advocacy and Policy- Advancing rights of women and girls by providing evidence from our services to change the system. The organisation was established in 1993 in response to high levels of violence against women in South Africa, particularly in the form of domestic violence, and in recognition of the silence that many women suffer in unnecessarily, due to either a lack of knowledge of their rights, a lack of confidence to access justice for themselves, or both. MOSAIC’s registered head office is in Cape Town, South Africa.   For further information about MOSAIC, please visit www.mosaic.org.za

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Thought Thursdays: Breaking the pattern of domestic violence in families

By Advocate Tarisai Mchuchu-Macmillan, Executive Director of MOSAIC  How do we break the silence around domestic violence? For decades if not centuries or millennia, domestic violence, has thrived because of victims as well as witnesses keeping quiet. Yet, in a world where we have access to more modes of communication than ever before, the silence around domestic violence continues. The culture of silence in families when there is abuse and violence in the home has influenced the way in which communities and the care and justice system responds and reacts to domestic violence. The deafening silence is felt and seen in the slow pace of response to domestic violence. Communities report that the police do not act when domestic violence matters are reported, and families find ways to negotiate violence to keep it within the confines of the household. These actions continue to enable the pattern of domestic violence, and entrenches the intergenerational cycle of violence in South Africa and across the world. For many domestic violence has become the norm. The UCT Children’s Institute and MOSAIC Training Services and Healing Centre recently completed a research study exploring the intersections between violence against women and children. The findings suggest one of the most significant driving factors of violence in the home is the normalised nature of abuse and violence in the family as well as the community keeping quiet about the violence experienced.   Understanding the nature of violence Many families and communities think of violent behaviour as the norm – starting a conversation and educating everyone on what Domestic Violence is, and how it affects individuals and families, particularly women and children who are the majority of victims, is the first step in shifting the pattern of violence. Domestic Violence is not only defined as physical abuse. It also involves emotional and psychological abuse, including intimidation, humiliation, control, isolation, and all other forms of abusive behaviour.   Breaking the silence Speaking about the abuse and violence in the home is seen as a form of family betrayal. This culture of not speaking out entrenches violence and promotes under-reporting of violence thus indicating that the number of Domestic Violence cases reported, is only the tip of the iceberg. Victims of violence need to know they are heard and believed. They need to find someone they trust to talk to, to become survivors of violence.   Knowledge is power The next step in breaking the pattern of violence knowledge. First is understanding ways to break the cycle of violence within relationships, homes and communities, this is done through gender transformative workshops that build the capacity of individuals and families to build positive, equal and non-violent relationships. Secondly, know your rights and find the support and courage to stand up for yourself. We must increase rights education linked to practical ways on how to claim those rights when a violation happens in the home and/or family. This means that individuals and communities are empowered with an understanding of their right to dignity, equality and bodily integrity and how they can report and access their rights to care, safety and justice from the system.   Changing the pattern The silence itself is a driver of domestic violence. Those who have suffered any form of abuse or violent behaviour at the hands of their partners, household members or family are encouraged to speak out. Breaking the silence could prevent others from being victim to the violence, and opens up support networks for the victim, those witnessing the violence and the person inflicting the violence themselves. One of the widest drivers of violence in the home are harmful gender norms, driven by patriarchy within families leaving most women and children voiceless. To change the pervasive pattern of domestic violence, we need to fully invest in gender-transformative programming at a policy and local implementation level. To end the pattern of violence the voiceless needs to find their voice. Survivors and witnesses of domestic violence need to be empowered to come forward and speak up in a safe place where they feel protected and heard. Only then can we start to break the pattern and build on a culture where domestic violence is not the norm. Please find link to the study below: http://www.ci.uct.ac.za/sites/default/files/image_tool/images/367/intersections/repository/project-publications/Intersections_VAWVAC_Final%20Report_2022_220322.pdf   For more information, inquiries or requests for interviews, please contact: Carli Roodt Communications consultant E: carli@mosaic.org.za T: +27 84 580 1587   About MOSAIC MOSAIC is a community-based non-governmental organisation (NGO) that works to prevent and reduce abuse and domestic violence. This is achieved by providing holistic, integrated services when incidents      occur, and supporting clients through the process of healing and rebuilding their lives after a traumatic event. MOSAIC creates an enabling environment through our holistic and integrated five-pillar service model Access to justice – psychosocial and legal support provided by court support workers, and psychosocial support from MOSAIC’s Sexual Violence Counsellors at Thuthuzela Care Centres Support and Healing – Counselling Services, Support Groups and Sexual and Reproductive Health Rights; Engaging Men and Boys- Training and Workshops, Support Groups and Counselling for Men Empower- Education and Skills Training, Rights Training, Youth GBV Life Skills and Community Dialogues Advocacy and Policy- Advancing rights of women and girls by providing evidence from our services to change the system. The organisation was established in 1993 in response to high levels of violence against women in South Africa, particularly in the form of domestic violence, and in recognition of the silence that many women suffer in unnecessarily, due to either a lack of knowledge of their rights, a lack of confidence to access justice for themselves, or both. MOSAIC’s registered head office is in Cape Town, South Africa. For further information about MOSAIC, please visit www.mosaic.org.za

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Thought Thursdays: It’s time for fathers to join the gender-transformed league of parenthood

Positive and engaged fatherhood can help us make significant strides towards attaining genuine gender equality and dismantling toxic ideas of masculinity that fuel gender-based violence. By Kerryn Rehse, Advocacy, Policy and Research Officer, MOSAIC As with most successful collaborations in society, teamwork makes the dream work. Unfortunately, while the same rules should apply to parenthood, which should be a partnership, mothers are often left to tackle parenting alone or take on most parenting duties, even in relationships. Fathers will need to get off the bench and become part of the starting lineup as active players in fairer, more gender-transformed parenting teams if we want a shot at attaining genuine gender equality in our very patriarchal society. Research conducted over five years by the Human Sciences Research Council and the South African Race Relations Institute shows that 60% of South African children have absent fathers while more than 40% of mothers are single parents. Although an estimated two-thirds of fathers in South Africa do not live with their children, the benefits of engaged fatherhood exist regardless of whether a father lives with the child. The meaningful presence of a caring, involved father in their child’s life from an early age is proven to impact early development positively. It is just as vital for young people. Both parents can live separately and still be present for a child, which can be achieved if we discard patriarchal ideas of what it means to be a man and father and allow childcare work to be shared. Sharing the burden of care is crucial in empowering women, ending violence against them and transforming toxic masculine thinking and behaviour. The root of men and boys using violence, which often manifests itself through rape, physical, emotional and financial abuse, lies in the need for power, control and in gender stereotypes and toxic ideas of what makes a man. We, therefore, need fathers to show up through engaged fatherhood that provides opportunities to role model healthy and respectful relationships. A father who plays an active role in a child’s life can influence the child immensely. This is a critical entry point to foster gender equality and challenge limiting gender norms and roles. We cannot talk honestly about sharing the responsibility of raising children without mentioning costs. Engaged fatherhood includes sharing the financial burdens of childcare. Unfortunately, the overwhelming majority of single-parent households are headed by women, meaning that absent fathers leave mothers to shoulder the financial weight of childcare alone. In addition, unequal economic opportunities exacerbate the financial burden on single mothers. The vast gender wage gap, obstacles in career advancement and development, the lack of flexible work environments and comprehensive and affordable childcare options are just some of the challenges that compound financial pressure on single moms. These extra challenges often trap single mothers in low-ranking or low-paid roles or keep their households on the brink of poverty. Taking absent fathers to maintenance court is an attempt to ease this financial strain and get financial respite. And yet, time and again, we see the profound injustice served when a father argues that he has no money or contests the required amount to contribute to childcare shared costs. Child maintenance regulations should be strengthened to encourage solutions that consider the child’s holistic needs and promote gender-equitable solutions. If fathers do not have the economic means to contribute to the child’s welfare, courts could mandate that they take over their other care needs. For example, where a father argues that he is unemployed, the court could instruct him to provide aftercare support such as help with drop-offs, homework, sporting game attendance, bath times etc. This would remove the burden of the unpaid care labour on the mother, who also needs to work to cover the financial gap that he cannot and help her attain a work-family life balance. We also don’t want to short-change mothers by not evolving the narrow role of the ‘ATM father’ – a father who is there to contribute financial support and little else. While some fathers are financially present in their children’s lives, they nevertheless still believe that the mother is best placed to nurture the child and that they do not have a role to play other than providing for the child’s financial needs. However, this does not relieve mothers of the demands of being the default parent, a position with endless operating hours that entails doing the lion’s share of the day-to-day work of parenting. We need fathers to roll up their sleeves and bring more than the proverbial food to the table to achieve genuine gender equality in parenthood. MOSAIC is an anti–gender-based violence (anti-GBV) organisation: www.mosaic.org.za

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Culture and domestic violence

Media release 21 September 2021   Cultural norms that fuel prevalence of domestic violence need to be addressed – says anti-GBV NGO   Cape Town, 21 September 2021 — South Africa urgently needs to deal with the patriarchal cultural norms that fuel and normalise the scourge of domestic violence.  This is according to Nandipha Ganya, Programmes Manager at MOSAIC Training, Service & Healing Centre, a non-governmental organisation (NGO) dedicated to fighting GBV. “We need to challenge the harmful beliefs that make it okay for men and boys to continue to use violence against women and girls in the name of culture.” The NGO says it’s crucial to confront the following toxic cultural beliefs and practices embedded in our society to reduce the disturbingly high incidents of domestic violence: Dealing with domestic violence as a family matter: Hiding domestic violence as a matter to be dealt with privately between intimate partners or resolved within the family before it goes ‘outside’ is wrong. “Domestic violence is a public issue and a crime that the police and justice system should handle. Yet sometimes when victims, especially women, file domestic violence cases, police and magistrates, even family members, dismiss complaints because they also believe that culturally these are private family matters and not crimes. Treating domestic violence in this manner has the effect of silencing the victim,” says Ganya. Normalising staying in violent intimate partner relationships: We need to remove the beliefs that make it difficult for women to leave abusive relationships. Divorce, leaving, or moving back home should not be seen as failures or regarded with shame. “Teachings such as umshado uyabekezelwa (one must persevere in marriage), mosadi o tshwara thipa ka bohaleng (a woman holds the sharp end of the knife) or ‘stand by your man,’unfairly require women to continue to persevere and be resilient in marriages, even when their lived reality in these marriages is abuse and potentially fatal violence. Equating domestic violence with love: Harmful gender stereotypes steeped in social and cultural norms condone a man who beats his wife or intimate partner as something he does because he loves her. “In some instances, young girls and boys are still taught that boyfriends and husbands beat their girlfriends and wives when they love them which is very problematic,” says Ganya. Legitimising violence as a means to assert male authority in the family: Men still use violence in the home to demonstrate that they are the heads of the house and, therefore, in control. “Through this practice, men coerce respect and submissiveness from their homes. In addition, many still believe that men are entitled to dole out discipline through corporal punishment and other forms of violence. As a result, children who grow up in such environments also then view corporal punishment as a way to resolve conflict, ” says Ganya. Socialising boys into toxic ideas of masculinity: Our patriarchal society still teaches boys a version of masculinity that includes shows of physical strength, dominance and sexual conquest. There’s still an emphasis on ‘proper’ masculinity, which is believed to include a man’s ability to dominate and control a woman or female partner. Ganya says this toxic version of masculinity manifests in boys and men using violence to assert control over women through rape, harassment, physical, emotional and financial abuse. “It also manifests as violence against other men because toxic masculinity is ultimately harmful to everyone including men themselves.” MOSAIC says part of addressing these harmful cultural norms includes engaging with men and boys. The NGO does this through gender sensitisation workshops that focus on unpacking the harmful gender norms and stereotypes that drive and sustain high levels of gender inequality, domestic violence and GBV.  “Our programme creates a platform where men and boys learn, unlearn and relearn how to be positive human beings who co-exist with others in a non-violent way. The workshops introduce the participants to gender and toxic masculinity concepts in an easy-to-understand way and alternative, positive gender norms and masculinities that promote gender equality,” says Ganya.   ENDS   About MOSAIC MOSAIC is a community-based non-governmental organisation (NGO) that works to prevent and reduce abuse and domestic violence. This is achieved by providing holistic, integrated services when incidents occur, and supporting clients through the process of healing and rebuilding their lives after a traumatic event. MOSAIC creates an enabling environment through our holistic and integrated five-pillar service model Access to justice – psychosocial and legal support provided by court support workers, and psychosocial support from MOSAIC’s Sexual Violence Counsellors at Thuthuzela Care Centres Support and Healing – Counselling Services, Support Groups and Sexual and Reproductive Health Rights; Engaging Men and Boys- Training and Workshops, Support Groups and Counselling for Men Empower- Education and Skills Training, Rights Training, Youth GBV Life Skills and Community Dialogues Advocacy and Policy- Advancing rights of women and girls by providing evidence from our services to change the system. The organisation was established in 1993 in response to high levels of violence against women in South Africa, particularly in the form of domestic violence, and in recognition of the silence that many women suffer in unnecessarily, due to either a lack of knowledge of their rights, a lack of confidence to access justice for themselves, or both. MOSAIC’s registered head office is in Cape Town, South Africa.   For further information about MOSAIC, please visit www.mosaic.org.za

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Thought Thursdays: It takes a village, and we need fathers present as active members of that village

An engaged version of fatherhood can help us make significant strides towards attaining genuine gender equality and dismantling toxic ideas of masculinity that fuel gender-based violence. By Kerryn Rehse, Advocacy, Policy and Research Officer MOSAIC A well-known African proverb tells us that raising children takes a village, a reminder that child-rearing is work better shared within the framework of a supportive community. And yet, research conducted over five years by Statistics SA shows that 60% of South African children have absent fathers while more than 40% of mothers are single parents. Although South Africa has an estimated two-thirds of fathers who don’t live with their children, the benefits of engaged fatherhood exist regardless of whether a father lives with the child. The meaningful presence of a caring, involved father in their child’s life from an early age is proven to impact early development positively. It is just as vital for young people. Both parents can live separately and still be present for a child, which can be achieved if we discard patriarchal ideas of what it means to be a man and father and allow child-care work to be shared. Sharing the burden of care is imperative in empowering and ending violence against women and transforming toxic masculine thinking and behaviour. The root of men and boys using violence, which often manifests itself through rape, physical, emotional and financial abuse, lies in the need for power, control and in gender stereotypes and toxic ideas of what makes a man. We, therefore, need engaged fatherhood that provides opportunities to role model healthy and respectful relationships. A father who plays an active role in a child’s life can influence the child immensely. This is a critical entry point to foster gender equality and challenge limiting gender norms and roles. Sadly, the prevailing stereotype of bead winner or provider also robs fathers of the opportunity to be genuinely involved in their children’s lives. Based on our work engaging men, we have seen how money plays a role in father absenteeism in parenthood. When fathers don’t have money, they tend to stay away from their children. Others believe that the mother is best placed to nurture the child and that they do not have a role to play other than paying maintenance money to provide for the child’s needs. Let’s move from these views of an ATM father – there to provide money and little else. Instead, we need to understand that some fathers might not have the economic means to contribute to the child’s welfare but can uplift the burden on the mother in other ways by being physically and emotionally present and seeing to different care needs of the child. It is for this reason that we also need to relook the textbook definition that describes absent fathers as “fathers who are unable to participate actively in the fathering roles expected in terms of social, emotional, economic and protective contributions and providing for their children.” While this definition is okay on paper, it unfortunately also fosters the toxic belief that a man is a good father only if he provides all the needs in the description. A more generous and gender-transformed definition of fatherhood will ensure the best outcomes for children, mothers, fathers, and indeed the whole village. MOSAIC is an anti–gender-based violence (anti-GBV) organisation: www.mosaic.org.za

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Passing of DV Act

Media Statement xx September 2021   For immediate release   New Domestic Violence Act promises heightened protection for victims   Cape Town, xx September 2021 —The amended Domestic Violence Act, signed into law by President Ramaphosa (day to be inserted) is set to afford victims strengthened protection from domestic violence.   This is according to Kerryn Rehse, Advocacy, Policy and Research Officer at MOSAIC Training, Service & Healing Centre, a non-governmental organisation (NGO) that helps empower women and girl survivors of domestic violence and abuse. “The changes coming into effect through the new Act usher in a strengthened protection order system that removes some of the earlier administrative hurdles and gaps that made it difficult for victims to access protection and justice from the system.”   Electronic protection orders’ application One of the significant changes to the Act is the introduction of electronic applications of protection orders. Applications can now be sent electronically to the relevant court for consideration without the applicant needing to leave home, which is sometimes not an option. The applications can be submitted on a 24-hour basis, meaning they can be prepared and lodged with the court for consideration outside normal court hours. If there are grounds, the magistrate will grant the interim protection order without the applicant presenting at the court.   “The new process does not require applicants to take a day off work to be at the court to submit the application, which will be a relief to many, especially shift workers and those who live in areas far away from courts, such as rural areas. They can now be assisted by NGOs such as MOSAIC to complete applications and only attend court on their return dates. Ultimately, this simplified process increases access to justice in a way that has not been seen in South Africa before,” says Rehse.   Safety monitoring notices The Act now contains a provision for the safety monitoring notice, an order made by the court on the relevant SAPS station to monitor the safety of the protection order applicant who shares a residence with the respondent or their abuser. The notice compels SAPS to “check-in” with the applicant through electronic channels and visits to the home or joint residence to assess the applicant’s safety. “The safety monitor notice and subsequent SAPS monitoring are preventative measures aimed at reducing instances of violence escalation and femicide, where there are reasonable grounds to suspect that the abuser poses a threat to the applicant ‘s safety,” says Rehse.   The Act further makes provision for SAPS to use necessary force to gain access to the victim, where the abuser or another person denies access.   Integrated electronic repository for protection orders Victims will now also be better served by the integrated electronic repository for domestic violence protection orders. If used as outlined in the Act, the NGO says the electronic repository will provide a centralised system for storing and retrieving domestic violence protection order applications and ordered issues – something that civil society has been advocating for many years.   “There will no longer be a need to turn away a complainant who lost the copy of their paper-based protection order but lives in another magisterial district or to send them to go to the court of application to obtain a new copy,” says Rehse.   Extended interim protection orders and return dates Recognising that complainants can be kept away from attending court in the hope that the matter will be struck off the roll or set aside, the Act now compels the court to extend the interim order in the case that a respondent appears on the return date, but the complainant does not attend. The court must also extend the return date, and the clerk of the court must notify the complainant in the prescribed form and manner of the extended return date.   MOSAIC, which contributed to the amendment process of the Act, says South Africa has a hope of making strides against domestic violence and GBV when there is the kind of alignment between civil society activism and lobbying along with political will and leadership demonstrated in this legislative process. “This process, which was just under 18 months from start to finish, was very expeditious in law-making terms.  This Act comes to pass as a result of great collaboration between political parties serving on the Justice Portfolio Committee, civil society organisations working together with government officials and the receptiveness of government officials and legislation drafters to input,” says Rehse.   ENDS     Notes to editors     Before the amended Domestic Violence Act After the amended Domestic Violence Act Protection order applications Applications could only be made in-person at the court, or in a few cases, outside of court hours facilitated by SAPS. Applications can be made electronically. It could take a full day for the applicant to present themselves at court to apply for a domestic violence protection order. Applications can be submitted on a 24-hour basis, from the applicant’s home or through the assistance of a service organisation, such as MOSAIC. Domestic Violence Safety monitoring notices               New provision. Introduction of safety monitoring notice, an order to the relevant SAPS station to monitor the safety of the protection order applicant/ victim who shares a residence with the respondent/their abuser. SAPS must “check-in” with the applicant/ victim through electronic channels and visits to the home/joint residence to assess their safety. SAPS can use necessary force to gain access to the complainant, where the abuser or another person denies access to the complainant. Integrated electronic repository for domestic violence protection orders All protection order applications, supporting affidavits, supporting evidence, copies of interim and final protection orders, variations, record of the return of service, etc were paper-based, filed manually and accessible only at the court at which the application was made.             Centralised and electronic system for the storage and retrieval of Domestic Violence protection order

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