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Intimate Partner Violence (IPV) affects millions of people across South Africa — yet it often remains hidden behind closed doors.
At Mosaic – Training, Service & Healing Centre for Women, we work every day to support survivors, raise awareness, and help communities break the cycle of abuse.
This guide explains what IPV is, how to recognize it, and most importantly, how to get help and protection.
What Is Intimate Partner Violence (IPV)?
Intimate Partner Violence (IPV) refers to any form of abuse or violence that occurs between people in an intimate relationship — whether married, dating, cohabiting, or previously involved.
It includes physical, emotional, sexual, psychological, and financial abuse, as well as controlling and coercive behavior intended to dominate or harm a partner.
IPV can happen to anyone, regardless of age, gender, or background — but in South Africa, women and children are disproportionately affected.
Types of Intimate Partner Violence
IPV can take many forms, and not all are visible. Recognizing the different types is the first step to breaking free.
1. Physical Abuse
Any act that causes bodily harm — hitting, slapping, choking, or threatening with a weapon.
2. Emotional or Psychological Abuse
Insults, humiliation, manipulation, or threats designed to erode your confidence and sense of self-worth.
3. Sexual Abuse
Forcing sexual acts without consent, including within a marriage or relationship. Consent is always required.
4. Economic Abuse
Controlling access to money, employment, or resources — leaving the victim financially dependent.
5. Verbal Abuse
Continuous criticism, name-calling, or shouting intended to intimidate and dominate.
6. Digital or Online Abuse
Monitoring your messages, demanding passwords, or using technology to harass or stalk you.
Warning Signs of IPV
IPV often escalates gradually. Some red flags include:
- Constant monitoring or isolation from friends and family
- Jealousy or accusations of cheating
- Threats of self-harm or harm to you
- Unexplained injuries or fear around your partner
- Financial control or taking your money
- Forced sexual contact or manipulation
If any of these sound familiar, you are not alone — and there is help available.
The Impact of Intimate Partner Violence
The effects of IPV go far beyond physical harm. Survivors may experience:
- Depression and anxiety
- Post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD)
- Low self-esteem
- Economic hardship
- Social isolation
- Physical injuries or long-term health issues
At Mosaic, we focus on healing the whole person — emotionally, mentally, and socially — so survivors can reclaim their strength and independence.
Legal Protection for IPV Survivors in South Africa
South Africa’s Domestic Violence Act (No. 116 of 1998) provides legal protection for anyone suffering from IPV.
Survivors can apply for a Protection Order, which legally prevents the abuser from continuing their behavior. This order can include restrictions like:
- No contact or communication
- Removal from the shared home
- Confiscation of firearms
- Prohibiting further threats or abuse
You can apply for a Protection Order at your nearest Magistrate’s Court, and Mosaic’s trained staff can help guide you through the process confidentially and free of charge.
How Mosaic Helps Survivors of IPV
At Mosaic, our mission is to provide safety, healing, and empowerment to women and children affected by IPV and GBV.
We offer:
- Court support for Protection Orders and legal processes
- Free counselling and trauma debriefing
- Empowerment programs and life skills training
- Community education and prevention initiatives
- Referrals to safe shelters and emergency accommodation
Every survivor’s journey is unique — and we walk with you every step of the way.
How to Get Help If You’re Experiencing IPV
If you are in immediate danger:
- Call the SAPS emergency line: 10111
- Contact the GBV Command Centre: 0800 428 428 (or 1207867# from your mobile)
- Reach out to Mosaic: Our team provides confidential, non-judgmental assistance.
You have the right to live free from fear and violence.
Breaking the Silence: How You Can Help
Ending IPV starts with awareness and action. You can help by:
- Supporting survivors without judgment
- Learning about the signs of IPV
- Donating or volunteering with organizations like Mosaic
- Sharing information to help others seek support
Together, we can build communities where safety, respect, and equality are the norm.
Mosaic is committed to transforming the lives of survivors through healing, advocacy, and empowerment.
